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Caregiver burnout self-check

Caring for someone is hard work. This short check is a way to pause and notice how you are doing. It is not a medical test.

Short answer
Caregiver burnout is physical and emotional exhaustion that builds up from caring for someone over time, and noticing it early is a sign of strength. If several signs on this check sound familiar, ask for help with one task and contact your local Area Agency on Aging about respite.

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What to do next

If several of these sound familiar, that is a sign to get more support, not a failure. Small steps help:

Tell one person how you are really doing.
Ask family to take one specific task, such as a weekly call or a ride.
Ask your local Area Agency on Aging about respite care and caregiver support programs.
Look for a caregiver support group, in person or online.
Make your own doctor appointment and talk about stress and sleep.

If you feel hopeless or think about harming yourself, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. If you ever feel you might hurt the person you care for, step away and call for help.

Common questions

What is caregiver burnout?

A state of physical and emotional exhaustion that can build up when caring for someone over time, often with little rest or help.

Where can I find respite care?

Your local Area Agency on Aging, reached through the Eldercare Locator, can tell you about respite and caregiver support where you live. The ARCH National Respite Network also helps families find respite.

Is this check a diagnosis?

No. It is a private way to reflect. Talk with your own doctor about how you are feeling.

Rules vary by state. Check with your state agency or a licensed professional where your loved one lives.

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Official resources and further reading

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