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Who pays for care? Medicare, Medicaid, VA, and private pay

Paying for care is one of the hardest parts. This guide explains the main sources in plain words so you know which questions to ask.

Short answer
Medicare covers short-term skilled care, home health under certain conditions, and hospice, but generally not long-term help with daily living. Long-term care is usually paid by private savings, long-term care insurance, Medicaid for those who qualify under their state's rules, or VA benefits for eligible veterans and spouses.

Medicare

Medicare covers doctor visits, hospital stays, and some short-term care, such as skilled nursing facility care after a qualifying hospital stay, home health care when certain conditions are met, and hospice. Medicare generally does not pay for long-term custodial care, such as help with bathing and dressing in assisted living or a nursing home over the long term.

Medicaid

Medicaid is run by each state, so names, rules, and waiting lists differ. Many states have programs that help pay for nursing home care and for care at home or in the community, often called waivers or home and community-based services. Eligibility depends on income, assets, and care needs.

The look-back

When someone applies for long-term care Medicaid, the state reviews gifts and transfers made during a look-back period before the application, generally five years. Giving away money or property during that time can delay coverage. Talk with an elder law attorney licensed in your loved one's state before transferring any assets. Thinking about selling or transferring the home? Read selling a loved one's home: Medicaid, Medicare, and money questions first.

VA benefits

Veterans and surviving spouses may qualify for help, including Aid and Attendance or Housebound benefits added to a VA pension, and caregiver support. A VA accredited representative can help you apply at no cost. Be wary of anyone who charges to file for benefits, or who sells annuities or trusts to help someone qualify. VA pension, including Aid and Attendance, reviews asset transfers made during a look-back period, generally 3 years, and transfers for less than fair value can lead to a penalty period. VA.gov explains this on its pension rates page.

Private pay and other sources

Many families pay from savings, income, long-term care insurance, or the sale of a home. A fee-only financial planner can help you plan. Ask any provider for written prices and what is included.

Can a family caregiver be paid?

Sometimes. Many state Medicaid programs let people direct their own care and hire a family member or friend, and the VA has caregiver programs for some veterans. Rules on which relatives can be paid vary by state. Ask your state Medicaid agency or your local Area Agency on Aging what is available. If a relative is paid privately, ask an elder law attorney about a written caregiver agreement before payments start, because Medicaid may treat unwritten payments as gifts.

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Common questions

Does Medicare pay for assisted living?

Medicare generally does not pay for room and board or long-term custodial care in assisted living. It may cover some medical services received there.

Does Medicaid pay for assisted living or a nursing home?

Medicaid can help pay for nursing home care for people who qualify, and many states have programs that help with care at home or in assisted living. Rules vary by state.

What is the Medicaid look-back?

A review of gifts and transfers made during a period before applying for long-term care Medicaid, generally five years. Transfers in that time can delay coverage. An elder law attorney can explain your state's rules.

Can I get paid to care for my loved one?

In many states, Medicaid self-directed programs allow a family caregiver to be paid, and some veterans qualify for VA caregiver support. Which relatives can be paid varies by state.

Rules vary by state. Check with your state agency or a licensed professional where your loved one lives.

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Official resources and further reading

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